That's Enough

I was watching Farah Dhukai's video titles "The Truth About My Pregnancy" and my heart completely broke for her. I could not believe how cruel people can be and that got me thinking about my own situation and the amount of pregnancy questions I had to refrain myself from REALLY answering but instead I just smiled and listen. When a married women has been married for a certain time or reaches a certain age people start to wonder why she doesn't have children. Some people will start sending Bible verses that talk about how children are a blessing and others will simply ask "when are you going to start having children?" or "do you not want children?" Even have the audacity to say "are you having issues conceiving?" Well all of the above has happened to me. So here is why we haven't started working on a family yet...It is simply because my plate is full at the moment, being a full time wife (yes that is work and a lot of responsibilities that I do not take lightly), a full time student and a part time nurse is all we can handle right now. I say "we" because my marriage is a partnership and we take every decision together and this is what works for us right now, so thank you for the Bible verses and the bold questions but let me complete this plate right now.

Shalom,

FM.